Holidays can be stressful but if you are single sometimes they can be stressful and depressing. So what should a single gal do to keep your holiday white instead of blue?
This article has some wonderful tips for the holidays but also things you should be thinking of anytime you find yourself single. Find ways to relieve stress and other things will follow. I love this quote from the article “It’s not singlehood that’s a liability, it’s stagnation.” “Get the juices flowing in your life, and then your relationship status becomes an attribute, not an identity.” I think a lot of people make the mistake of having their relationship become their identity and it is easy to slip into that mind frame, however, separate friends or interests are important to a healthy relationship. If you establish a life of your own now then you will become more confident and secure and that makes you more attractive to the opposite sex. Focus on friends, family and yourself and your holidays will still be merry.
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I totally ALMOST blogged about this too........crazy scary! I like what you said about establishing your life first, find yourself first then letting someone else in.
Screw what other people think and what is this about stagnation?? You can date who you want when you want or not at all, what about this situation is stagnant? Being single is GREAT and who cares if you are the only one at the party that's single, you may be the only one that is truly happy too!
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